Contentment doesn’t come naturally. It’s a learned behavior. Paul writes in Philippians. “I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation” (Phil. 4.12). If Paul can learn the secret of contentment, so can we.
Edward Bouverie Pusey (1800-1882) was a Hebrew Professor at Oxford University, England, for fifty-two years. E. B., as he was called, was also a leader in the Oxford Movement seeking to restore high church worship to the Church of England. He wrote and preached on contentment. If we wish to gain contentment, he advised these five rules:
1. Allow thyself to complain of nothing, not even of the weather.
2. Never picture thyself to thyself under any circumstances in which thou art not.
3. Never compare thine own lot with that of another.
4. Never allow thyself to dwell on the wish that this or that had been, or were, otherwise than it was, or is. God Almighty loves thee better and more wisely than thou dost thyself.
5. Never dwell on tomorrow. Remember that it is God’s not thine. The heaviest part of sorrow often is to look forward to it. “The Lord will provide.”
What a provocative list! Paul’s claim to have learned the secret of contentment in Philippians issues in the next verse, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Phil. 4.13). Contentment isn’t found in external variables. It originates from an inward sufficiency, “through Christ who strengthens me.”
One more quote from E. B., “God’s chief gift of those who seek Him is Himself.” Since God in Christ cannot give us anything greater than himself, he gives us himself. It’s the secret of contentment as expressed in E. B.’s prayer: