We come at long last to December 31, the last day of the year. The transition to a new year brings with it reflections on the passage of time and uncomfortable reminders of our mortality. We live in a death-denying culture. We avoid talking about death and have even adopted euphemisms to keep from referencing it directly. It wasn’t always this way.
The Rule of St. Benedict developed in the sixth century directed monks in the Benedictine Order to “keep death daily before your eyes.” Benedict wasn’t being morbid. He was seeking to cultivate the virtue of humility in his monastic community. Contemplating death enabled monks to live with greater purpose and refrain from becoming consumed with superficial concerns. The Psalmist directs us to pray, “Teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Ps. 90.12).
The following prayer is included in an ancient book of prayers called the Sarum Primer of 1514. Sarum is a Latin abbreviation for Salisbury, the city in England where the prayers originated. Lord, be with us at our end and at our departing: