Entering an arranged marriage seems inconceivable to me. I’ll choose my own wife, thank you very much. Yet, in twelfth century Europe, the practice of arranged marriages was common, especially among nobles. In 1203, the King of Castile (now part of Spain) sent a bishop on a diplomatic mission to Denmark to choose a bride for Prince Ferdinand. The bishop recruited a young priest, Dominic of Guzman (1170-1221) to accompany him. They stopped along the way at an inn in France. The innkeeper belonged to the Cathars, also known as the Albigensians, after the French city where this heretical movement originated. They believed the universe was governed by two gods, one good and the other evil. The good god ruled over the spirit realm, while the bad god governed the material world, with its accompanying suffering. Whatever belonged to the body, be it eating, procreation, worldly possessions or marriage, was considered evil. They rejected Jesus’ humanity and resurrection and had little use for people and churches that did not share their anti-material bias. It had many features of an age-old heresy called Gnosticism. Dominic stayed up with the innkeeper through the night to refute his arguments and usher him back to orthodox faith. While their marriage negotiations on behalf of the king proved successful, the princess died before their return trip. Ignited by a renewed passion to preach and teach the faith, they established an order that came to be called Dominicans (also called the Order of the Preachers). This order placed service and contemplation on equal footing and was not confined to the monastery. Dominican friars hit the road as traveling evangelists to preach the gospel. Today’s prayer is a thirteenth century Dominican prayer. While its originator is unknown, it certainly fits the way Dominic ordered his life:
Dominic of Guzman
May God the Father bless us.May God the Son heal us.
May God the Holy Spirit enlighten us,
and give us
eyes to see with,
ears to hear with,
hands to do the work of God with,
feet to walk with,
a mouth to preach the word of salvation with,
and the angel of peace to watch over us
and lead us at last,
by our Lord’s gift, to the Kingdom.
Amen.
Simon Tugwell, Early Dominicans: Selected Writings.
Rev. Dr. Peter James served 42 years as the senior of Vienna Presbyterian Church in Vienna, VA — 21 years in the 20th century and 21 years in the 21st century. He retired in 2021 and now serves as Pastor-in-Residence at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary.
Even as a pastor, prayer came slowly to Pete. Read Pete’s story.